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24                            HOW TO COPE WITH FAILURE AND REJECTION

























































             Try your luck                  of events, try to link up on LinkedIn with the   you are able to foresee.  Or quite simply, there
         2  It never hurts to be optimistic and polite,   hiring manager or your interviewer.  If the   was a candidate that was a better fi t than you
                                                                              were, or that the hiring manager felt more
                                            odds are ever in your favour, your profi le may
         you never know how things will go. If you   be  fl oated up to other people in the hirer’s   chemistry with. It may be a hit to the ego
         felt that the interview went smoothly and   network, which pushes you towards better   when you’ve failed one too many times, but
         you really want to work with this employer,   prospects or a more suitable role.   trust that it will work out eventually.
         buttering them up by telling them how
         impressed you were with their company and
         how you would be happy to fi ll the position   Try to attend industry specifi c  networking   Use each failure to build up your interview
         should the selected candidate not work out, or   events, join meet up groups. You never know   skills, learn what you can do better. Reading up
         work with the company in a different position   who you’re going to meet, and when your   on interview tactics, body language, brushing
         –  this can work in your favour as this paints   guard is down in a less formal setting – you’ll   up on your resume or cover letter writing can
         you as a gracious candidate.       feel less pressured and more likely to be   do wonders for your next interview.  It also
                                            yourself. That in turn, can create a positive   helps to read up on the company, try to fi nd
                                            fi rst impression on a potential contact.   out the culture and working style. This would
         However, be very cautious against sounding                           help build rapport with your interviewer and
         too desperate.  Keep things professional and                         come across well prepared and knowledgeable
         avoid emotional blackmail. No one likes being   Don’t blame yourself  about the enterprise.
         made to feel bad for rejecting an applicant.   4 Remember, it’s not personal, it’s just
                                            business. There are many factors that can
             Always network, even when      affect hiring, from headcount to budget cuts.
         3 it doesn’t seem to work out      A lot of it is completely beyond your control.
                                            Some hiring managers already have a profi le in
         You know the saying, smile although your   mind, and will not hire anyone outside of their
         heart is breaking. After an unsuccessful turn   perceive candidate, this is also not something
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